Why Are We Afraid?

When talking in class we talked about how we feared losing someone we are so deeply in love with, and afraid of death. We are so afraid of losing someone that we are so deeply in love with.  We don’t want to lose it because of the happiness they bring. Lose them because you don’t want them to see them make the next person happy, when your feelings are still deeply with that person. When we have someone that we are deeply in love with we do everything we can to keep them happy, we are so afraid that if someone else can come along and do everything to keep them happy that they will walk right out. We are also afraid not knowing when someone could just fall out of love with you and walk out of our lives. We are also afraid of the pain that being in loves bring. The sleepless nights, wondering what he could be doing and hoping that he is thinking of you and hoping that he will pick up the phone and call you. When deeply in love and thinking about if a person might leave we always think to say to ourselves are we doing everything  we can to keep someone happy that I don’t lose who I love so dearly. But sometimes losing people in our lives could gain us something so much better. Another thing that we spoke on in class is being afraid of the unknown. We are so afraid of things that we can’t see. Far as death, we are afraid because we don’t know where we will end up. If we are either going to heaven or hell we never know, as far as every day we have our day planned saying that once we finish class we are going home. The fact we don’t fear going home is because we have seen home we know how home feel because we have experienced home for ourselves besides us reading or someone telling us about it. Heaven or hell is not like a place that we can visit and come back to tell our friends how the visit was. That’s just like when someone tell you about a place they visit they are not afraid to visit because someone has visualized it and have seen it unlike death. No man can tell you about death even though we do read it in the bible and it tell us not to fear it it’s the fact that we can’t experience death and come back to earth.  So, why do we cry when we lose someone is deeply? When we don’t have to go through the suffering and hurt anymore. Why do we really fear death, is it because that we are not living right and we are not sure where we might go? Or the fact that no one walking earth can actually tell you how much you will love heaven once you are there, or how much you will not like hell when you get there.