Date cautiously

The movie Catfish caught America by surprise in 2010. Although there were many people experiencing similar circumstances, it wasn’t something people spoke about openly. I believe that people are attracted physically first and then comes the chemistry. The problem with that is that people are naïve and compulsive. They are Naïve because they always think the best of people especially when they are attracted to them.  They seem to be focused only on the physical appearance or the positive characteristics of that person and ignore all negative ones. I believe that the Internet is not an adequate way to seek companionship because of the impersonal nature.  It facilitates an easy way for dishonest people to mislead others. If you do decide to date online, you should use the upmost caution. Always consider everything you are told a lie until proven other wise. It might not be most positive outlook on things but it is the safest, unless you want to end up with your own “Angela”.  Dating is something that should be taken seriously, performed honestly and executed respectfully because the person you date might be the person you marry someday and the father or mother of your children. I am not talking to the people who already know these things but to the people who find it amusing to Catfish.  Just because that person might not the most attractive in the world, it still doesn’t give them the right to lie and deceive. There is someone out there for everybody; they just have to be patient.